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Hello my loves
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I can't believe it's Thursday already, my , my ,my has this week flown by or what?
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So I have a topic that I would like to share or actually start a debate about because I know the opposite sex will have  their opinions.

As I was downloading some music from the inter-webs I came across a site titled "The Unfortunate Truth About Women"

I was perplexed and curious all at the same time. Wondering to myself what is it about my sex I don't even know that's soooo unfortunate?

If you went to the site it's a comic about a couple in bed. While the man is semi-sleeping the woman starts to tell him how sweet he is and all these nice things. Then the comic takes a turn by the woman saying she is going to leave the guy for a "manipulative bad-boy" (term they used) for no apparent reason.

Obviously this comic was drawn by a guy who was hurt by a woman who left him for someone he dubbed a jerk. Now I understand freedom to express one self and all that B.S. Let me tell you something Mister Comic man that fucking works two ways on this street!

I am going to make this general but I will let you know I am all for the woman's side, come now I have to be bias!

Okay so I believe people in general do not leave someone for no apparent reason. There is always a fucking reason! 

Here are some common reasons

1. You're bad in bed and I have no way of telling you without hurting your feelings so I'll just say its me and not you. 
2. You're fucking dirt cheap when it comes to everything and you don't even have a job you low life!
3. You cheated on me, fuck off
4. I really wanted those Cookies and you wouldn't get them for but lucky for me Harry did. 
5. You're family freaks me the fuck out and I really don't want to play tummy sticks with your cousin
6. I just saw what you're (mom/dad) looked like and if that's you at that age Hell to No, I'm outtie! 
7. You've gained a lot from this relationship and I have gained nothing. Sorry but your weight is crushing my ass during sex. 
8. You're more of an alcoholic than I am and sorry but I can't be with someone who drinks all my AL!  
9. I like kinky things in the bedroom and you are just too timid.
10. Uh we were never dating I'm gay! Remember!? 

I mean all those reasons are reason enough to break it off with someone. Just because your nice, giving, awesome and everyone loves you doesn't mean that the person you are dating is going to love you back. There are many things that people do to make someone want to break up with them. They are called "deal breakers" or so that's what they were called the last time I heard.

Now you can't expect someone to stay in a relationship because they are nice, that's what you call a fucking friend. Or that's what you call that old man you see getting on the bus every morning with a smile on his face. Nice is not what you call someone you want ravage in the sack.

Now I have known some women to stay in a relationship because the person is "nice or sweet." The thing is they always followed it up with a but and once that comes out you know they don't really want to be in the relationship. Listen people like what they like and sometimes what's important in relationship to one person may not be important to the other. That's why in relationships people need to fucking open their mouths within the first two weeks of dating to let the other person know what you dub important.

I think Sex should definitely be on the top of that list, if you aren't communicating well in the bedroom than I'm sorry to say that relationship won't last. Unless you're ass is richer than Oprah or you're allowed to have side biddies.

Also I think attention is another key importance in a relationship. Be attentive to what your partner wants and needs from you, vice versa, it's a two way street!

Lastly I believe you need to have a separate life as well. Like it's okay to have things together but I believe in a healthy relationship its good to keep some things separate. Like girls night should not include your sweetie even if all his man friends canceled on him. Like shopping don't take him out shopping girls because he hates that shit unless you are walking into a titty bar, game store, car place or sports shop. That's the only way he'll be interested in "shopping."

Do you concur?